{"id":189,"date":"2009-02-08T21:24:12","date_gmt":"2009-02-09T01:24:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/2009\/02\/08\/if-you-have-to-tell-people\/"},"modified":"2009-02-08T21:24:12","modified_gmt":"2009-02-09T01:24:12","slug":"if-you-have-to-tell-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/2009\/02\/08\/if-you-have-to-tell-people\/","title":{"rendered":"If you have to tell people \u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

My favorite Margaret Thatcher quote is \u201cBeing powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren’t<\/em>.\u201d I was reminded of this the other day when I saw a huge pickup truck with a bumper sticker that said \u201cSexy ass woman driving a big ass truck.\u201d<\/em>  While there is no question that was a \u201cbig ass truck<\/em>\u201d I have a real hard time seeing the driver as a \u201csexy ass woman<\/em>.\u201d Well unless \u201csexy ass\u201d has nothing to do with appearance. This woman was scary. Every time I have seen a bumper sticker or a license plate that indicated the driver\/owner was sexy, beautify or otherwise attractive the bumper sticker was saying things that where contradicted by seeing the driver.<\/p>\n

So I was thinking, if you have to tell people you are sexy are you really? Or is it just what you want to think of yourself as? I made the same statement with regards to being a new media expert recently. If you have to tell me you are an expert in blogging or Twitter or other social media isn\u2019t that a sign of something missing? <\/p>\n

Sure if you have things to tell me so that I can conclude you are an expert myself that\u2019s fine. Or if someone else tells me \u201coh so and so is an expert\u201d maybe I\u2019ll listen. Although to be honest I\u2019ll probably want some sort of evidence. There are too many cases of the one eyed man leading the blind out there in social media.<\/p>\n

I see people put themselves out as experts on social media all the time. All too often they have Technorati rankings lower than mine<\/a> (on my main blog which even when it was double what it is now was not that impressive) or they are \u201cTwitter experts\u201d and they have a follower count or a Twitter grader rank lower than mine<\/a>. Not that I am an expert or anything like a social media star. I know people who are blogging, Twittering, Friendfeed, Facebook stars and trust me I am no where near where they are. I\u2019m just saying that if you are a media star there should be statistics to back it up.<\/p>\n

And there are other things. Like being smart or knowledgeable. Don\u2019t tell me you are \u2013 act like you are and I\u2019ll figure it out.<\/p>\n

Now I\u2019m not saying that people shouldn\u2019t have positive self-images of themselves. If someone wants to look in the mirror and see a smart, sexy, just incredible person go ahead. I do. But I don\u2019t go around trying to convince people that the thin, athletic, smart sexy guy with a full head of hair I picture in my head when I think of myself is necessarily the same as their reality. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My favorite Margaret Thatcher quote is \u201cBeing powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.\u201d I was reminded of this the other day when I saw a huge pickup truck with a bumper sticker that said \u201cSexy ass woman driving a big ass truck.\u201d  While there is […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mrt","category-philospohy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.n1zyy.com\/mistert\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}